Children's party teas in the rationing and shortages of World War Two
I don't remember going to many parties during wartime, which was hardly surprising because it was difficult enough to feed one's own family, let alone other people's. I do know though that adults seemed to think that jellies and blancmanges were real treats for children - although I didn't like them particularly myself.
Children's party food in wartime
The following recollections are from people slightly older than me, who have better recollections of wartime children's parties.
One thing I remember was 'p.b.o.s.' written at the bottom of children's party invitations. It stood for 'Please bring own sugar'. Each child would turn up with about a teaspoon of sugar in a screw of paper, sometimes in an old matchbox, to replenish the sugar which the hostess had used in the making of jellies and blancmanges, etc.
There was always a limited supply of jellies and blancmange powder in the shops. These were, as far as I can remember, not rationed. The local grocer would try to share out his supplies among all his registered customers - but everything they wanted they had to ask for.
Children's party food shortly after the war
I do remember going to children's parties shortly after the war. Rationing and austerity were rife and parents could not afford much in the way of luxury food. There were plenty of games, and parents put a great deal of effort into them. They had been brought up - as we were - to having to amuse themselves and so there was no shortage of ideas. Standard games were musical chairs and pass the parcel.
I never knew anyone buy in entertainers.